It originates from the Hindu wedding religious ceremony where Lord Shiva and his bride Sati were applied with Haldi to cool the couple and make them look even more beautiful.
1 Groom promises to bride : i will nourish you with love. You will be always relieved, in happiness or sadness i will be always with you.
2 bride promises to groom : Whatever i will receive from my man i will be satisfied and from child to aged people in the family, i will Compliance my every family member.
2 Groom promises to bride : Clothes, jewelry , You will have freedom in your clothing, i will fulfill all your Equitable needs .
3 : bride promises to groom : I will always follow your saying, and will cook sweets and food for you.
3 : Groom promises to bride : I will be not desire any other lady. And in food i will prefer simplicity.
4 : bride promises to groom : i will use pure ornamentation to look attractive to you and will perform my deed with my voice, heartily feelings and body with you.
4 Groom promises with bride : I will not join any ceremony, function without you. I will not visit any holly place alone.
5 Bride promises to Groom : I will have patience in sorrows and will feel happy in happiness. And will always support you in every situation. I will never go close to any other man.
5 Groom promises to bride : In Garden, in places or in entertaining region i will be with you. In cooking you will have complete freedom.
6 Bride promises to groom : I will live happily with you, will serve father in law and mother in law. I will have affection with kids. I will show Hospitality to relatives and acquaintances. I will live with you, no matter where you will live. We will never cheat our love once and will be never cheated by them.
6 Groom Promises to Bride : I Will never leave you. I will never leave you from my heart. In every ceremony you will sit on my left side . I suppose you will bring good luck for me…..
7 Bride Promises to Groom : I will put my trust in You. In every ritual i will support you, In finance, Virtue and in every rite, i will act accordingly to your behavior. Here every one is Witness that you became my husband and i conferred myself to you.
7 Groom promises to bride : I Accept your trust and put my same trust on you. By touching your heart here i announce that , I accept You as my better half, You will stay in my voice and i will be your husband.
These are the 7 promises which were made in every hindu Indian wedding. These Rituals , tradition are rooted deeply inside heart. These are pillars of the Society…
It is believe that during every wedding in India girl who is going to became bride is an avatar of goddess Parvati and Groom is avatar of Lord Shiva, That’s why it is the common saying that both are Shiv – parvati like couple.
First Invitation of wedding is send to Lord Ganesha… Lord Ganesha is known as trouble destroyer. Lord Ganesha is elephant headed. Son of Lord Shiva and Goddess Parvati.
It is the bond of trust and Love….
We will care each other….
I live in you and you live in me….
Will live with you.
Will use ornamentation for you….
You belongs to me and i belongs to you…
This turmeric and vermilion is prove that I am married and you are fine.
I will follow you….
I conferred myself to you.
I will look after you with love…
You are the man and i am your lady…
Life is impossible without you…
Only for you…
Will bring Good luck for you.